Posted the other night asking what people thought were normal etc behaviour! Some of it not quite what I expected but hey ho I did ask!
DH, has continued to be controlling - but did listen to me
When he went shopping he bought lots (and I mean lots of fresh meat) (quite often he buys frozen ready meals, even though he knows I prefer to cook fresh!} HOORAY!!!
Took DD2 shopping yesterday and bought her 2 prs of lovely fitting jeans from Fat face! Cost £24.50 each! I normally would not consider spending this much but DH has wound me up so much that I thought sod him! Plus it was a bit of an extra present for DD as her birthday is on Tuesday!
Then today, think this was my biggest triumph! I thought it was strange that I didn't have all the school/work shirts to iron. Spoke to DH and he admitted that there was one load in tumble whilst other load was still in washing machine! I went KERBOOMB! in a nice way! Explained to him that he had done 2 darks yesterday!!!! and 2 whites today!!!!! Why not do 1 dark and 1 white yesterday (mainly school/work clothes) and the other 2 loads today!
This is a man who not only has a honours degree but a masters degree too!
Obviously no degree in common sense! As soon as I explained why I went KERBOOMB he understood!!!!
We did have a long long chat, although I am still not happy with the answers at least I know why he is behaving why he does!
He is controlling, most of the time I let him get on with it! - His problem!!! Every now and then it gets out of hand and I can actually (sounds odd I know!!) prove a point! ie the washing.
Also this evening in one of his controlling ways he thought that he had turned off the multi chef, in fact he had turned off the steamer that was cooking all the vegetables for dinner! Could I shout at him - No I couldn't !