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My ex has walked out, I am so angry...

(7 Posts)
char861 Fri 05-Sep-08 20:42:35

I know I have not beem on here for a while but I just never thought my ex would leave me and i have no one to talk too.He has left me with 2 kids under 3 and a mountain of debt. I asked him why he was in a bad mood one night and he said nothing but I kept on at him and finally He said he wanted to leave and that he didnt love me anymore. He is online flirting with other girls and wants his single hassle free life back. I just feel like such a idiot, although I love my wee boy who is 6 mos why did he have another kid wi me. I had caught him before online flirtin but just let it pass. I have been left wi everything, I could just cry. Sorry for the babble I have had a glass of red wine

Mamazon Fri 05-Sep-08 20:44:47

He has been caught flirting before and he is doing it agian. you dont know he hasn't actually cheated properly.

It sounds as though you are better off without him.

It is going to hurt for some time but eventually you will get to the light right at the end of this tunnel and be gratefull he isn't standing beside you.

scanner Fri 05-Sep-08 20:45:03

You poor thing, it sounds like a tough situation. I'm sure someone who's been through this before will be along soon. You will survive.

char861 Fri 05-Sep-08 20:48:17

Thanks mamazon, I dont want him back but i feel im becoming bitter as he is out creating a fab new life an im left with the kids working and paying off money. I know im a fool for thinking he wouldnt go online again i guess I jus seen too much good in him. Im so scared of being alone and never finding anyone else.

soph28 Fri 05-Sep-08 20:52:01

when you say your ex, is that because he is now your ex or has he done this before? hmm

char861 Fri 05-Sep-08 20:54:37

Yeah he lft a month ago so he now my ex. It's so random only weeks ago before he left he was talking to my bro about marrying me. also when i have seen him he is really jelous and has asked me for sex. I told him I couldnt be his friend right now as he had just broke my heart and he said he never would have left if he knew we couldnt be friends.

ali23 Fri 05-Sep-08 22:16:50

Try and keep your chin up. Have you anyone that can help you out? Look after the kids for a couple of hours so you get a bit of me time?

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