Actually I feel like you did when you were a child and you want the comfort of home but it is home that is the problem so you feel you have nowhere else to go. Does anyone recognise that feeling?
For those who don't know my situation, dh changed jobs last week and moved to a rented house that the firm are providing for us until we can sell our home and buy another one. I want to move too to be with him, but he threw a wobbly last night and said he wants me to stay here until Easter and let the kids finish the term at their present school. I can't bear to be alone for five weeks, but I feel if I move the kids dh will never forgive me. He said I always get my way and he is not going to let me do so this time. I said would you hold it against me for the rest of your life if I moved this week? and he said yes! But I have a phobia which kicks in when I am alone with the kids and he knows about it so how can he do this to me?
I feel so lost. I want to move so I don't have to face my phobia but I am scared to go to him as he will hold it against me all our lives. I know that sounds ridiculous. I have nowhere to go and I am too scared to be on my own.
He is backing me into a corner and I feel very scared and angry and the emotions are making me feel ill all the time. What can I do?
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Dh is backing me into a corner and I feel so sad.
Lonelymum · 21/02/2005 11:14
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