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do you go to bed at the same time as your dh/dp?

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:26

following on from thread about bedtimes

dh and I don't because he goes to bed really early as he's up early.

bil and sil both go early (8:30 !!!)

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Saturn74 · 31/08/2008 19:27

dh goes to bed about 11pm
i burn the midnight oil.

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Hulababy · 31/08/2008 19:28

Yes, DH and I normally go to bed at the same time. Very rarely DH might stay up a bit later to finish watching a fiilm or something, or we may go to bed earlier if the toher is out late (not often).

We go to bed, read and chat, then lights off for sleep.

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scorpio1 · 31/08/2008 19:28

Yes, we do, about 11 ish.

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unknownrebelbang · 31/08/2008 19:29

Rarely. He works shifts.

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nickytwotimes · 31/08/2008 19:29

We usually go about the same time and end up chatting for hours as there are no distractions. He does tend to stay up later than me at the weekend.

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DustyTV · 31/08/2008 19:30

Sometimes yes and sometimes no.

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girlsallaround · 31/08/2008 19:30

almost always.

do you sleep in physical contact? (holding hands, hugging, legs entwined, spooning...?)

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ranting · 31/08/2008 19:30

No, dh gets up about 4 in the morning, I don't, so there is no way I would go to bed at 9pm.

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:30

we hold hands all night

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Dropdeadfred · 31/08/2008 19:31

yes I do...

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 31/08/2008 19:32

i go first because he snores like a jack hammer and keeps me awake.

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sarah293 · 31/08/2008 19:32

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maidamess · 31/08/2008 19:32

No he goes to bed at 10 and I stay up watching porn.

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WingsofaAngel · 31/08/2008 19:33

Yes 9 times out of ten.
We sometimes hold hands as we drift off to sleep.

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:33

lol

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:33

lol

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Anna8888 · 31/08/2008 19:33

Yes, we both go to bed together sometime between 10 and 11.30 pm.

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Gingerbear · 31/08/2008 19:33

Another shift worker DH here, so no.
Even on weekends off, he will stay up till silly o'clock watching sport or a film.

Hmm, I think I need a word in his shell-like.

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maidamess · 31/08/2008 19:34

You lot are too soppy. There's some real hardcore freaky stuff on after 11.

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:34

I was kidding about the hand holding

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Anna8888 · 31/08/2008 19:34

We fall asleep entwined but quickly get too hot... we cuddle first thing in the morning...

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:35

I fall asleep with his cock in my mouth

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Gingerbear · 31/08/2008 19:36

ggirl - do you live in Cockermouth?

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brimfull · 31/08/2008 19:36

yes actually

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Gingerbear · 31/08/2008 19:36

And don't you get hot under the duvet like that?

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