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do you go to bed at the same time as your dh/dp?

(45 Posts)
brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:26:01

following on from thread about bedtimes

dh and I don't because he goes to bed really early as he's up early.

bil and sil both go early (8:30 !!!)

Saturn74 Sun 31-Aug-08 19:27:47

dh goes to bed about 11pm
i burn the midnight oil.

Hulababy Sun 31-Aug-08 19:28:08

Yes, DH and I normally go to bed at the same time. Very rarely DH might stay up a bit later to finish watching a fiilm or something, or we may go to bed earlier if the toher is out late (not often).

We go to bed, read and chat, then lights off for sleep.

scorpio1 Sun 31-Aug-08 19:28:12

Yes, we do, about 11 ish.

unknownrebelbang Sun 31-Aug-08 19:29:07

Rarely. He works shifts.

nickytwotimes Sun 31-Aug-08 19:29:13

We usually go about the same time and end up chatting for hours as there are no distractions. He does tend to stay up later than me at the weekend.

DustyTV Sun 31-Aug-08 19:30:04

Sometimes yes and sometimes no.

girlsallaround Sun 31-Aug-08 19:30:12

almost always.

do you sleep in physical contact? (holding hands, hugging, legs entwined, spooning...?)

ranting Sun 31-Aug-08 19:30:42

No, dh gets up about 4 in the morning, I don't, so there is no way I would go to bed at 9pm.

brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:30:56

we hold hands all night

Dropdeadfred Sun 31-Aug-08 19:31:16

yes I do...

SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore Sun 31-Aug-08 19:32:10

i go first because he snores like a jack hammer and keeps me awake.

sarah293 Sun 31-Aug-08 19:32:18

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maidamess Sun 31-Aug-08 19:32:51

No he goes to bed at 10 and I stay up watching porn.

WingsofaAngel Sun 31-Aug-08 19:33:07

Yes 9 times out of ten.
We sometimes hold hands as we drift off to sleep.

brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:33:20


brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:33:20


Anna8888 Sun 31-Aug-08 19:33:24

Yes, we both go to bed together sometime between 10 and 11.30 pm.

Gingerbear Sun 31-Aug-08 19:33:51

Another shift worker DH here, so no.
Even on weekends off, he will stay up till silly o'clock watching sport or a film.

Hmm, I think I need a word in his shell-like.

maidamess Sun 31-Aug-08 19:34:00

You lot are too soppy. There's some real hardcore freaky stuff on after 11.

brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:34:29

I was kidding about the hand holding

Anna8888 Sun 31-Aug-08 19:34:33

We fall asleep entwined but quickly get too hot... we cuddle first thing in the morning...

brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:35:20

I fall asleep with his cock in my mouth

Gingerbear Sun 31-Aug-08 19:36:12

ggirl - do you live in Cockermouth?

brimfull Sun 31-Aug-08 19:36:39

yes actually

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