A friend has just called to ask advice as it's her MIL's birthday tomorrow. I said I don't know, but I'll find out
Friend's H left out of the blue after Christmas, leaving her with DD's 15 & 17 and DS 9. The 2 girls have had nothing to do with their dad since and the boy, having been disappointed a number of times when Dad did't turn up for visits, has been in counselling (through school) for a while.
My friend was a mess for a while, but has got herself together, taken a 2nd job and is getting there. During this time her MIL has been very much on friend's side and has maintained regular contact with her GC. Normally they would have done something special for the MIL's birthday as she has been a lot of help to them over the years, but this year friend is not sure what to do.
She's thinking of dropping round with a card and flowers, but is worried that this will be seen as too much by H or not enough by MIL. What do you think?
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Dilema over ex-MIL's birthday
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whatdayisit · 27/08/2008 22:07
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