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how much sex is too little - continues...

(31 Posts)
Allyco Fri 18-Feb-05 14:59:24

well ladies my drought is over although don't know how long I will have to wait for the next time. And it was fantastic!!

bunni Sat 19-Feb-05 23:26:06

i havent had it for a while buit not too bothered if i do or not???? Am I a freak or is there more people like this?

ImuststopdrinkingBlossomhill Sat 19-Feb-05 23:27:15

Once a week in this house. Twice if he is really lucky

MistressMary Sat 19-Feb-05 23:34:51

try six months!

jamiesam Sat 19-Feb-05 23:41:01

Congrats Allyco.

Bunni, I'm with you, left my libido somewhere, buggered if I know where...

Once a week, or dh starts to get a bit twitchy.

BEKsmum Sun 20-Feb-05 00:32:55

Allyco, congrats, did you leave MN on this thread as a hint .

We had a kids party today and my dh is snoring away behind me - nothing new there then! If anyone stumbles across my libido as I lost it ages ago, can you pls send it back to me 1st class post!

misdee Sun 20-Feb-05 08:35:10

wells its been months, and seeing dh is tender in that area as the hospital sliced very close for an angiogram, and tomorrow i am having a baby, we can safely say it'll be at least 6weeks.

duster Sun 20-Feb-05 09:04:12

Sex? Huh? Wassat? Have poor memory, I can only remember things that happened less than a year ago....

SPARKLER1 Sun 20-Feb-05 09:16:16

Know the feeling. I can't be bothered with it either most of the time. Much rather turn over and go to sleep! After having kids demanding me all day and never getting time to myself the last thing I need is someone else hanging all over me. Mind you saying that Friday night (as I'm sure you heard already) had a great alcohol induced night out. Dh and I came and............ well need I say anymore???? It was bloody fantastic! It's a bit tricky to get time to ourselves here - two dds and my sister lives with us too. She moves out in a few weeks so hopefully things may improve then!

SPARKLER1 Sun 20-Feb-05 09:42:51

Hmm - think I've killed it - did I give too much information???

ImuststopdrinkingBlossomhill Sun 20-Feb-05 09:43:46

Glad you had a good night

duster Sun 20-Feb-05 09:49:38

....just been looking 'sex' up in the dictionary to remind myself!

SPARKLER1 Sun 20-Feb-05 10:51:36

SPARKLER1 Sun 20-Feb-05 20:20:19

anonymouschap Mon 21-Feb-05 10:21:14

does ANYONE over 20 have any kind of sex life any more?

I seem to be reading stuff like this everywhere, and i wonder if it is a modern phenomena, or if couples still wanting to be close is and has always been a total myth?

Fastasleep Mon 21-Feb-05 10:24:01

Help! Help! I'm one of the er...constant bonkers but now we've found out I'm pregnant again we're both really really nervous and are holding off for ages.... how do I stave off the insanity of not doing it! Whhhyy does he have to sleep naked and 'squidge' up to me all night! AAAAHHHH!

Leogaela Mon 21-Feb-05 10:38:00

Fastasleep - a 'constant bonker'! I like that expression! I'm one too. WHy should being pregnant stop you??? Although these last few weeks of my pregnancy (now 37+ weeks) it has reduced and not because I don't feel like it (more that i have concerns about the pregnancy).
I get irritable if I don't get it at least twice a week, its like not getting enough food or sleep, I find it relaxing and a great way to release stress. Maybe things will change after our baby makes an appearance!

Allyco Mon 21-Feb-05 21:46:38

oh anonymous chap you are v. cynical (have I spelt that right it looks wrong).

DH and I been married 21 years and yes we do want to be close it isn't a myth at all. It's just very hard to get round to it. It's the old story I suppose: "you should make time".

lou33 Tue 22-Feb-05 00:01:30

dh and i have been together almost 17 years , and we have a pretty good sex life . The odd barren patch, but nothing to complain about really. Closeness doesn't have to wear off after the first few years.

joash Tue 22-Feb-05 00:47:24

I'm with you on that one Lou. Wouldn't mind it a bit more though.

lou33 Tue 22-Feb-05 00:49:22

a bit more is always good

anonymouschap Tue 22-Feb-05 11:56:58

cynical? you say that like it's a bad thing

JoolsToo Tue 22-Feb-05 11:57:43

you've got to be either daddycool or biggaydad and I'm putting my money on DC!

jessicasmummy Tue 22-Feb-05 11:59:24

im a 3 times a week at LEAST girl.... dh has a HUGE sex drive! just found out im pg too and we have only had sex once since saturday when i found out, but hey, im on a promise tonight!

Beansmum Tue 22-Feb-05 12:01:10

I haven't had sex since october 2003. October 10th to be exact. I miss it!!!

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