So it has been 'mentioned' by some of DH's mates that their dp's are a bit shocked at the things I 'allow' him to do...
Bear in mind we have been together for 13 years since school and have lived in different cities/countries for a few years as well as together for the last 7.
So, he is allowed to go out on his bike whenever he wants as long as the children are looked after. (so if I am going out, he doesn't even ask, but I don't go out much)
He always gets to go out on one specific night a week.
He pays all the bills and gives me money for food each month so he does no food shopping at all unless I run out of bread/milk etc.
If he stops for a pint on the way home from work he doesn't have to call me to ask my permission.
He doesn't do much housework, his only set chores are the bathroom and the bins, but will normally do something else if I specifically ask him to, which isn't that often, I'm not houseproud but he's worse!
WRT to childraising when he is in the house he does his fair share, he never takes them both out together without me as he doesn't have a very good stern voice so dd1 tends to leg it and scares him.
This weekend he started his annual leave and on the first day he decided to go and see his parents and little brother for 2 days, who have not been well (mum and bro, that is) so, in front of his mates, he asked if that was okay, and I told him not to be so silly, of course it was.
Last week DD's and I went away to my mums leaving him behind all on his own as he couldn't have more leave.
well? is this normal (as it seems to me, we are both grown ups, I am not his mother) or am I being taken advantage off?!
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Am I a walkover or not? (Male advice welcome too...) went a bit long, sorry
ChirpyGirl · 25/08/2008 19:18
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