DH spends ages in the toilet and always seems to go in there when he knows everyone else needs to be in there such as early in the morning when the kids need to get ready for schoole etc.
The pattern is:
DH goes into bathroom and locks the door. Doesn't ask if anyone else needs the bathroom first, just thinks of himself as usual.
Then 20 minutes later one of us asks "are you nearly finished? we need to get ready" which is often men with "yeah, nearly".
10 minutes after that "are you nearly finished?? I'm going to be late for work, I need to use the bathroom" met with "yes, nearly finished".
10 minutes later "I'm late for work and the kids are late for school, can you get out of the bathroom so we can use it? there are other people in this house you know!" met with "for gods sake, I'm nearly finished!".
Anyway, 5 minutes later he'll come out and close the door behind him saying "I'd give it 10 minutes or so if I were you..." I remind him that everyone else is late and he replies with "I know, I'm just saying...you might want to wait a few minutes..."
So few minutes later, we go in, room stinks, window WIDE open (often in the depths of winter) kids refusing to go in and get ready...
So is this a control issue? he likes to make us wait for him? or am I genuinly being unfair and irrational?
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Irrational I know but does anyone understand?
Hollowhead · 25/08/2008 12:58
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