My very good friend has just told me that she is leaving her DH and although I have offered her all the emotional support I can, I am fairly ignorant as to the practicalities and said I would post on here for advice.
A bit of background - they have been married 8 years and have 2 DC. The relationship has always been turbulant due to the fact that over the years he has given her reason not to trust him over a number of different issues.
She has now decided after his latest selfish behaviour that she definately wants to leave him.
The problem she faces is she doesn't have anywhere to go and doesn't know where she would stand moneywise if she didn't take the children (issue here is that he works from home and she goes out to work part time)
She says she wants her own place to live her life without her DH but will go 'home' to take the children to school in the morning and will continue to collect them everyday as normal.
Would she be entitled to benefits when she had left of her own accord and doesn't have custody of the children?
Would she have to rely on her wages to pay her rent and feed the children when they stayed with her?
I think this is all in the short term until they decide what to do permanently.
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leaving the family home, advice needed please
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MindingMum · 24/08/2008 15:32
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