That's it really.
Sober,quite funny,intelligent,great with the children,bit moody,fairly easy going.
Drunk,can't stand him and it's just all so predictable and boring.
Went out with his bosses today on a jolly to the airshow,had a phone call at 7pm.
Hehad a drink with the boss and was now in the local with a couple of "drinking buddies",said he would get a taxi and be home by 8pm.
10.15pm,he staggers out of taxi,goes straight upstairs and collapses on the bed.
Then we have the usual thud thud through the ceiling,I go up and surprise surprise he has fallen off the bed.
This continues and he has now managed to get to the bathroom and undress himself.
Well done,give him a house point!!!
He is 47 fgs and has 2 young children.
He went to the best schools in South Africa and Belguim.
Got a masters at uni and has had a priviliged up bringing.
Me ,from a council estate and no private schools but have enough common sense to know when enough is enough.
Just came back from visiting the in laws and can see why he is like the way he is and I am by no means a party pooper but drinking too much is not always a good social situation.
DH was up with his parents and sister who was staying most night drinking champange and I took the children to bed and DH never came up once to see if I wanted to join them again downstairs.
(We were staying in a seperate annexe near the house)
When I asked him about this he says he sees me all the time and wanted some time with his parents and sister.
Bloody arrogant,selfish pig.
Yes,he likes his drink always has dine and I guess he is an alcoholic.
SO I have been told,it's an illness.
The only bloody illness I can see is a self absorbing,selfish,no respect attitude.
What he does when he drinks is pass an illness on to me of anxiety,worry,depression,hate,loathing,wanting to kill him or for him to hurt himself.
Also awful memories of the things he says and the things he does that irritate the hell out of me and they stay with you.
But not him,oh no,he will have forgotton it all by the morning.
All the joy of the drinking and none of the pain afterwards,he passes that on to me.
I know everyone is different and just want to say am not tarring everyone with the same brush.
That's how I see it as far as my DH is concerned.
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God I hate DH when he is drunk
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thisissoboring · 22/08/2008 00:40
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