Hey! Hoping someone can tell me that everything os fine and that me & my fiance are normal!! Just had our baby 6 months ago, we lived together then 4 hours away from any other family, and for the first 3 months he did nothing, he got a laptop and sat on it day and night, while i did everything with the wee one, eventually i found out he has been talking to other girls online and also texting them, i blew a fuse and packed my bags that day and came to live with my parents with the baby, since then we have got back together and he has promised he is changed man, but the problem now is he is in the forces and now lives on the base and im still at my parents, he is due to go overseas for 3 months just shortly, but to be honest i dont see us lasting much longer, i understand he has to stay where he is for work but he hardly ever comes down to see me or the wee one, i dont even think our son knows who he is and it breaks my heart! I never pictured things to end up like this, during my pregnancy we were great , why has he changed all of a sudden he says hes still attracted to me and there is no problems in the bedroom area so why has he ruined everything? Im at the point now where i think its best for us just to end our relationship coz i really dont see it going anywhere - hes not even in a rush to have back living together as a family - so whats the point?? Sorry this is such a rant!! Any comments would be great! x
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