This may turn out to be a long and rambling post so apologies. Am a fairly new on mn, but have changed name as my dh has told me he doesnt want me talking about this on here, but I could really do with some advice...
2 nights ago my dh dropped into conversation that he wants a penis enlargement. We have been together 10 years and this has never never been mentioned before, nor has he ever expressed any concerns regarding size before. I think he has a perfectly sized cock and have tried to reassure him of this. Tbh, i actually thought he was joking and started talking about something else.
Then last night I asked him about it, waiting for him to confirm it was just a joke, but he says he's really serious. Apparently he's been unhappy about his size since he was 14 (he's 38 now), and feels that now is the time to do something about it!!He even showed me the internet site where he intends to buy this bizarre and painful looking device that he thinks will extend length and girth by 1". I'm totally shocked!
I've tried reassurance, but can't get through to him. eventually i told him i do not want him to do this and he got really upset! We both kept saying 'i don't want this to turn into an argument' but inevitable it did, and we went to bed not speaking.
I really dont understand this. My first thought is why, as I'm the only person who sees his cock and am more than happy with it, but he says this is for him, and nto for him to start cheating on me. Do believe him on that, but I just can't see his view point on this.
I dont want to fall out with him, but dont want him to go through something painful and expensive when there's no need to.
All comments, suggestions and advice welcome please. Am I just being a horrible wife and should say go for it??
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Don't understand my husband!!
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mrsnew · 20/08/2008 11:29
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