I am really shaking now.
DS1 is at inlaws for 2 nights. He wants to stay for 3. I felt lousy this morning so thought I would try and do a trade off. His siblings share today with him and he has his extra night. I thought about it and decided not to take them as DS1 had been so good I didn't want it to go wrong.
I rang to tell MIL and was a bit miffed she said he couldn't have a third night as he didn't want to share. I assumed he was disappointed and didn't see why he should miss out on an extra day when I had changed the plan.
I told her I never get to decide things for my own kids, she said anything she does is never right and hung up.
I rang back and she hung up after a minute or two again. Then my son answered and she wouldn't come to the phone. She did eventually.
I said I accepted her point and she was right. I was trying to explain my point to her so she didn't think I was a bad mother and she just said we would never see each others point of view. I told her I was trying and she needed to tell me. I could then apologise and not do it again.
She said we are not going to be on each others wavelength and I told her I have no one else and if we are argue then I have no one. She then said that is half the problem that I have no one else and put the phone down on me.
My son is there and I want to get him but he is staying as he wants to and I have to hope she is fine with him. Not looking forward to picking him up tomorrow in the fact I have to see her.
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