Please, anybody, I need advice because I am going out of my mind. I met my DH 11 years ago and I fell in love with him because he made me laugh and made me feel special. I was 33 at the time and never been married before. We married a year after we met but I always had a bell ringing in my head telling me this could be a mistake because I didn't physically fancy him. Silly me thought this problem would go away. Now 10 years married, I hate sex. I cannot stand him touching me or even kissing me. I told him 3 days ago that I couldn't pretend anymore and that I couldn't be physical anymore. I felt that I was being raped ... that is how bad it had become. DH immediately went into himself and started staying up late and drinking heavily. He wants us to get "help" from a counsellor or someone but I know I never want sex again with him. This is destroying him and I know I shouldn't have married him in the first place because of this reason. Over the years, I have agreed to sex etc just to keep him happy. He knows I don't enjoy it but if I say "no" more than two times, he gets in a bad mood. If I dare to say no more than 3 times, it ends up in an exploading row and the atmosphere at home is unbearable. We have two little children, aged 6 and 3. Is my marriage over?
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I hate sex with my DH - he cannot cope with this. Is my marriage over? HELP
PammyWammy · 14/08/2008 19:01
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