I am not sure if maybe it's me or dp. We have been together 13 yrs and he has never been one for cuddles really but the thing is I am. I love cuddles, kisses, holding hands and romance. I am not disillusioned (is that the correct word?) to think that after all these years of course the romance dies but honest all I want is to cuddle up on the sofa now and then.
When I question him his answer is that is who he is and I should accept it. I said to him it's not as if I am asking for the world just a cuddle now and then. Not just when we are having sex.
On the whole he is great but this one thing is so big to me and as much as I try I can't shake off the feeling of almost rejection. I did open up to my mum yesterday and she said she finds it strange and that he should want to not be told to iykwim.
I see myself even thinking of meeting someone else which is insane but that's how unhappy it is making me
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Am I so wrong to just want a cuddle and a kiss now and then?
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makeorbreak · 13/08/2008 14:08
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