I need some advice, I have been with DP 4 years and we have 2 children under 2. I don't think I love him anymore but I don't know what to do. The thought of him having to live without seeing our girls as much is awful, he loves them so much.
He is a great father and loves our babies very much and on the whole a good partner. There has been violence in the past but not for quite a long time and he has left me twice. In the past I have fought really hard for our relationship but I feel like so much has happened I am almost past caring now.
We never have sex, been well over a year and I don't feel any desire towards him really.
I don't know what to do, I hate the thought of breaking up our family, but not sure I can stay with a man i'm not in love with forever. Should I try more, should I leave? It's all such a mess.
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feelingawful · 13/08/2008 11:34
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