Bear with mine a dont really know how to start. Ex boyfriend & I finished 20 months ago I knew last year he was driving past the end on my road but it was resonable hours so didnt think anything off it. Forward to March this year go out come back at 3am & see him driving past so stand watching out the window (he cant see me) but I count that he drives past 14 times before I go to bed strange....Then I bump into him he starts telling me he loves me etc tell him I dont feel the same & I mention driving past he said he cant sleep so he goes for a drive I live 8 miles from him so driving past the end of my close not really an option.Even my 14 year old son has mention ex driving past when he comes in between 9 & 9.30.I said well thats not normal behaviour. Now I have got a new boyfriend whom I have been seeing for a month and only comes round when boys are at their fathers but I never let him stop the night he normally leaves about 1 ish. We have kept quiet about seeing each other as I am still going through a messy divorce 3 1/2 years on. Anyway new boyfriend sister has found out that we are seeing each other from ex's sister as he has seen new fella leaving so what is he doing at 1 in the morning,sat watching my house? I am now starting to find all this abit creepy. Advice would be appreciated. As wondering if thats why the dogs have been jumpy & dont laugh but noticed that some of my knickers have gone missing just thought they where lost in the ironing basket, but have checked not there. Advice would be very welcome as I know this isnt normal behaviour for someone.
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fifitinkerbell · 07/08/2008 09:58
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