a) the one b) you were living together c) you were married ) you had kids.
curious, i'll go first, (with xh I mean)
a) don't think I ever did, we jsut sort of plodded. b) pretty much right away - was working together as well v intense, moved away after 8 months for 6 months then in together properly after that c) married after 4 years d) DS after 6 years.
a) straight away! I was living with someone else unsatisfactorily, and I met Dh and fell totally in love with him. I couldn't sjhake the feeling that I was with the wrong person. b) We waited 6 months (to move the other bloke out!) c) he proposed the next year, we married the year after d) we had been married 2 years.
a) a week b) three months c) not happening d) had been together almost 2 years when DS was born
disclaimer on a) - I knew I'd have children with him, and I thought he might be the person to change my mind about marriage - but not entirely sure I believe in 'the one' - he did change my mind about marriage for a while but I have changed it back again
a) met him in a nightclub and only saw him once after that but then go in contact with him about a year later. b) once we were back in contact we were staying at his parents together straight away we stayed there for 3 months c) were not married yet d) after 3 months we then bought our house and moved out of his parents house.
There's no such thing as 'the one' but I knew I wanted to be with him when I made the decision to sleep with him. I wouldn't have slept with him unless I had been serious. Plus I was living with someone else so I had to sort that out first.
b) you were living together
We'd been together a year before we moved in with eachother, for 10 months of that year I had to live with my EX. About 5 weeks after I got my new house my new man moved in. It was scary and I wasn't sure it was what I wanted but he's been there every night apart from 4 since I had moved.
a) the one- dunno he grew on me. I knew he was special when he didn't mind that I wouldn't sleep with him but he still wanted to be with me. Of course him being so nice meant I was more likely to but he didn't know that b) you were living together- after a year we were housemates, seperate rooms, my best friend also lived there. c) you were married - about 3 years after we met I was 21 d) you had kids. about 10 months after that.