...and spent £60 on private dances (we aren't poor and he doesn't spend money on much that is frivolous).
Other people seem to think I should be cross but I can't see it. Am I being a mug? Is it a sign of disrespect?
He got a bit of female attention outside the marriage. He was consenting. They were consenting. I knew he was going there. There doesn't seem like there is a risk of him forming a relationship with the women but if a woman behaved that way with him in a regular nightclub that seems more of a threat to me.
He came home horny as hell and seemed like he had a good break from the stress of his job.
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Should I be cross if DH went to lap dancing club?
ActingNormal · 03/08/2008 21:49
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