Firstly, apologies for the name change but I think my friend also uses the site and would recognise my usual name.
I am pregnant and our baby is due in October. When I first got pregnant DH joked around saying if it was a boy I could name him but if it was a girl it was down to him. I jokingly went along with this thinking there was no point making a massive deal out of it when it may turn out to be a boy.
Anyway we have been told we are expecting a girl.
DH has decided that she "just has to be called after his gran". The name he wants is "Stockard". His grandma was called this and his mum has it for a middle name and so he thinks it would be nice to bring the name back with our DD.
I HATE the name, no offense to anyone who knows a Stockard but I think it is hideous. It sounds like a warehouse company or something. I didn't say anything at first, I just smiled and later brought the subject up by saying stuff like "shall we look through some baby names?" etc. He'd always smile back and say "I've decided on Stockard..."
Last week I sat him down and said whilst I didn't want to seem disrespectful to his family, I really don't think Stockard suits a modern day baby girl and he ended up turning it around that I always get my own way and if it had been a boy I would have chosen a name whether he liked it or not etc but I never had any intentions of carrying out this daft idea of "you name a boy, I'll name a girl". Its bloody childish. But of course he thinks I'm only saying that because he got to name the baby.
I have NO intentions of calling the baby Stockard. It's horrible. What's the best way to approach this? tell him straight and risk a row or try and pursuade him with other names or what? its really starting to get me down because I don't want to be arguining over stuff like this.
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How do I tell him I'm not using his name for DD?
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