some of you will know that I have had several 'not my fault' car accidents.
many of you may also know that I have aunty issues (she bought me up) and that she ranted at me about each car accident about exactly why I was there 'just waiting for a car to hit me'........
aunty has had a car accident. luckily, thankfully, she is ok. she has whiplash and the car is written off, but she hasn;t suffered sreious injury and for that I am glad.
I feel mean.
her DD (my cousin) told her she was stupid to go out driving that day just to be involved in a car crash.
aunty is rather put out by that comment.
I however feel very mean as it made me laugh as I feel as tho aunty has got her 'what goes around comes around'.
please tell me how to stop feeling rather gleeful about that commment as she made me feel so shitty when she said it to me and I feel shitty for knowing that she has had it sais to her, and that is just not right.....
You are not mean, probably just feeling slightly vindicated by the fact she has had to listen to the same comment she gave out! Mean would be if you were glad she had the accident, and that is not the case at all.