If anyone has been following my threads... i have finally left a controlling DP after 8 years together and a DD who is 2 and a half yrs old.
All blew up yesterday when we had a fight about me going with twin sis's DP for to see if he has chrones desiease
(i'm awlful at spelling so please excuse the errors)
To cut a long story short he has been controlling about the friends,family,his family i see from day one.
Yesterday he said id you hate it so much then just go.... take DD with tyou , when shes 10 or so she will know what her mum is like and come back to me anyway.
Luckly me parents live in the same area and i have been house sitting for them twice a day so could take DD to theirs. We have been away from DP for just under 24hrs... he hasn't even phoned to speak to DD.
I don't want to talk to him, but would not get between him and DD as she is his daughter.
I left my engagement ring with him so he knew i wasn't going to be spiteful and also that i ment what i said.
Now getting the urge to ring him and try to talk to him about this situation - however i know if i do this will be seen as a weakness on my part.
I have been speaking to my sis, nan and mum about this and they all say be strong, don't do it. However I don't want DD to miss out on her daddy. The problems between me and DP has always been with us..not DD.
Your suggestions please MN! Thanks
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StarSparkle · 24/07/2008 17:03
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