So my H left in April, lived on his own for about a month then got a 'houseshare' with a woman from work, only they also share a bedroom now..
Anyway - we have tried really hard to keep things friendly between us for the sake of out DC, and so far managed really well. Maybe too well.
He tells me all about their rows, about how it's not going to last long term. the last time he dropped the DC off he was in tears about how he was missing them (and upset them in the process of course).
Then shortly after, when I had reminded him that there was still more of his stuff at home to collect, I got a text telling me that he was finding it really hard to take stuff away, and that he was missing me...but that he probably shouldn't tell me that.
Now I don't have much problem in listening to him let off steam about his problems with new woman, partly because I know it will help keep him more settled for the DC, rather than hitting high stress heights, and partly because usually his reactions to events leaves me feeling relieved that I do not have to deal with that any more!
So what is going on here? Am I being too understanding in being a listening post? And what's with the 'missing me' texts? I mean - he shacked up with someone else less than a month after telling me that he didn't really love me any more and had been 'playing the part of a husband' for the last two years.
So go on - give me opinions from outside the situation. I feel like I'm missing the obvious somehow.
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bamzooki · 21/07/2008 22:59
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