I've wanted to end it for a while. We've only been seeing each other 4 months but he moved in with me uninvited. I'm on HB so was forever on tenderhooks. I just wanted to be there with my boys and my dog but whenever I tried to tell him to go he'd change the subject. He just wouldn't listen.
I started noticing he was becoming more obsessive. He went round a friend's house at 10.30 the other night looking for me but I was at another friend's. Luckily he didn't know where they live.
So, I decided enough and told him to go yesterday. He completely crumbled. I had to go outside with the dog (luckily kids with daddy) and ring him to tell him to leave the house. He refused so I threatened him with the police. Whilst he was out I got a friend round and she got her locksmith mate to change the locks so I could have peace of mind. I packed his things and put them on the front, then told him to get them.
He's been costantly texting begging me to have him back. He's been round to 3 friends houses then went to my church healing group last night pouring it all out to them and crying.
He's trying every trick to get me back. Even said he'll take my boys and his (who he hardly bothers with) out on Sunday to give me a break. I get plenty of break as exdh and I share-care. NOt that I'd dream of letting him.
Latest he's going to kill himself. Then he changes tack and says can we go out for the meal he's booked tonight even though I've been the one paying for us to go out as he's been hard up. NOw his dd who's pg wants to meet me on Sunday even though he never sees her Another he'd pay for me and my best mate to go away. It's endless.
I have my phone on silent but keep checking texts as friends are in touch too. I'm out of town with the dog. Somewhere he'll never find me.
I'm dreading going home though as he's not going to give up easily. I just don't know what to do next?
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Ended it with bf....he's texting like crazy...going round my friends houses....and threatening suicide.
JumpingDizzy · 18/07/2008 12:28
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