This is for real. My interest in sex is zero. I adore my dh and still find him sex on legs but i have no desire for sex.
I can think of sex and not be interested. I am seeing my gp on monday but wondered if there is something herbal i can take? I have some in the cupboard that have had no effect in the past.
Our youngest and last child was born 2yrs ago. And was an horrific time. Planned cs was waiting from 7 in morning and finally had her at 3.30pm even tho i was on insulin fro gestational diabetes. lost lots of blood needed a 6 pint transfusion and a 4 pint plasma transfusion. Drain left in for 24 hours but was resting on a nerve whole time so was in absolute agony. Found the recovery took ages and was more painful than any of the others.
But i was sterilised at the same time too if that made it worse?
dh is being so patient but i know its so frustrating for him. Havent had sex in 3 weeks and was 2 months before that. I dont wnt to lose him and i want that closeness back that we had.
Any advice gratefully accepted!
Have name changed for my modesty with rl friends reading.
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how can i increase my libido?
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