Hi. I work full time (until mat leave in 1 month) and DH is a market trader. Business isn't brilliant because of the credit crunch and I'm trying to think of ways to change what we do. I have discussed it with my dad (who DH respects loads, and who is an antiques dealer himself with 30 years experience) and Dad agrees with my views so I know I'm not just interfering. I need Dad to speak to DH but not in an engineered way.
Anyway, we have agreed that I will do the odd market here and there after the baby is born, as well. Thing is, whenever I try to raise any opinions that contradict his he gets defensive, and cross. I know he's got this 'I've been doing this for years and what do you know' thing, but it's also that he feels criticised and as if I'm accusing him of not being good enough, or making enough money. Thing is, I know he could make more if he tried a few things.
I can't, for example, reduce the prices without his agreement even though I think £29 is a much more attractive price than £31 for example.
Anyway, we had another cross word last night, he ended up saying 'well you do it then' (about pricing) so I said I wasn't doing anything under those circumstances (us disagreeing) and went to bed. He expects my help though in other ways, driving the van, helping set up, making a packed lunch...but I'm not knowledgable enough to have any real input My mum and Dad used to work together and they were a partnership. We both have risked stuff for this business and we both rely on it, so why am I not allowed to be really involved?
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DH resents my input on the business
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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 16/07/2008 08:13
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