I just want some advice. Looked at my DP's phone a few weeks ago and a woman had text him. It said 'Glad tobe back in my nice warm house' then something else thatI didn't getchance to read but the text had a fair few kisses at the end. DP caught me looking at his phone and his face was like he'd just poo'd himself. He said he knew her years ago fromwork and shes just started texting him out of the blue. I asked if i could see his phone again and he would't let me.
Then tonight he was at his pc, he had MSN minimised, but I saw the same girls name (and another) with lovehears at the side of them. I asked him about it and he said there were loads of people on there from years ago, but these names were at the top of the list (does that mean hes chatted to them recently?) Hesaid there were blocked which they were.
I've got back from my friends and hes gone about, not answering his phone and has trimmed his man hair in the bathroom coz its all over the floor.
I just don't know what to do. My mum is sleeping and I have no one else to talk to.
I can't prove hes actually doing anything but text and MSN is bad enough for me.
I don't trust him 100% hence why I was looking at his phone. I'm just heartbroken that he could do this to me.
I feel sick and can't sleep. I'm angry, sad, feel stupid.
Please someone give me some advice.
TIA
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Daisypops · 12/07/2008 23:17
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