I saw my friend's husband the other night in a bar with another woman. He had his hand on her leg and they were leaning in very close to each other talking. When they got up to go they kissed on the lips, not for long but it was very obvious they were more than friends by the way they were with each other. He didn't see me and I did not have the nerve to go up to him. Him and my friend have afunny situation becasue for her job she lives in the week outside of London and he is in London and they only spend the weekends together. I wouldn't say she is one of my closest friends because I don't see her that much and we have quite different lives these days, but I have known her for a long time and went to their wedding a couple of years ago. I saw her about three months ago and she said everything was fine with them and they have been talking about having kids. I don't know whether I should tell her or not what I saw and it is really playing on my mind. I honestly think if I was in her situation I would want one of my friends to tell me because they should have my best interests at heart and I would be upset if I found out one of them knew my husband was cheating and didn't tell me. I don't know how she will react though and I don't want her to hate me if I tell her. I also thought about telling her husband what I saw, but I don't know him that well and don't have his number but I do know where he works. The other thing I thought was sending her an anonymus letter or text saying that I saw him then she could decide on her own what to do about it and wouldn't feel embarassed. In a selfish way that would also make it easier on me to not have to have that conversation. All advice welcome.
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