My friend has three children, they are 4 yrs, 2 yrs and 3 weeks in age. She has just discovered that her DH of 10 years has been having an affair with a colleague at work. It has been going on for over a year and he has run up a huge credit card bill on hotels, meals out, booze and cocaine with this woman.
I obviously know him pretty well and I know he was keen on going for a third baby, but now we know he was deceiving his wife even whilst they were trying for a baby, I just can't believe he can do something like this.
I feel enraged that whilst she was pregnant/giving birth/holding the family and home together, he was shagging around in hotels, snorting coke and getting pissed, telling her that it was 'work'.
But it's obviously not about me and how I feel, or the rest of her friends, it's about her and what she does now and how she moves on. The poor woman has literally just given birth and her world has crumbled around her .
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Would you/could you, even should you, forgive this behaviour? How can I help a friend get over her DH's betrayal?
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sandyballs · 10/07/2008 12:44
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