I have been kind of having an affair with married man... kind of as in first we were friends... then we were good friends and now we're lovers. Since September he has been saying that he will leave his wife (we were just good friends at this time) First he had to save up a deposit and then it was too close to xmas and he didn't want to upset his children.
Starting to think now though that maybe he has no intention of leaving his wife, he has been "just about to leave" for 5 months and still hasn't. I believe him when he tells me that things are over between he and his wife, one of our mutual friends has confirmed this b4 I slept with him... thing is he is still living with her!
I am really tempted to finish the relationship because I find it hard to deal with him seeing me and living with his wife.
My question is do you think that I've fallen for the oldest trick in the book?
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Oldest Trick In The Book?
NaughtyButNice · 21/01/2005 12:24
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