the hormones that you produce when b/fing actually inhibit the production of lubrication shall we say.....it's natures way of making sure you don't get preg again while still looking after littlie.that's why you don't have periods..no ovulation.
you are not weird at all...in fact you are reacting exactly as nature intended!!!
With my breastfed child I didn't have a partner, but with my first who couldn't beastfeed but was born vaginally with forceps and an episiotomy, we could hardly wait till the 4 weeks my doc told me. Very horny. I think I was just looking forward to having non-pregnant sex!
About 6/7 months - after a v. painful ventouse delivery. Literally still couldn't sit down at 6 weeks. Surgery a year later to excise scar tissue - lovely. So NO WONDER I didn't feel like it! I think hormones, lack of sleep and (in our case anyway) far more arguements all contributed to my libido going on her holidays!
Did not breastfeed which from what I have read here is probably the reason I was extremely horny (and broody ) after about 3wks each time. Didn't last though, now I could go 3 months quite happily without it.
It was about six weeks with dd, but did have to be cut so ... never breast fed with her. had ds just over week ago and already feeling horny (but sore) so another couple of weeks i reckon am breast feeding him. I think it depends. for about a year after dd's birth wasn't really up for it that often (always been highly sexed) but couldn't be arsed. Felt really horny through pregnancy with ds though. Maybe that after having baby - especially with lack of sleep, sex is not foremost in most mums minds!
My ds2 is 5.5 months old and I am completely not interested in sex and my dh thinks I don't love him anymore as I push off his romantic intentions. It's so frustrating for both of us! I think I was the same with my ds1 and things did get better after I stopped bf him (at 9 months!). But so glad to hear that others are uncomfortable with sex while bf (obviously not at the same time ). Was beginning to think that I've turned into a cold fish.