I know this was a severe overeaction on my part but I have been biting my lip and putting up with her snide remarks since dd was born almost 9 years ago while dh says nothing in my defence and something inside me just snapped today.
I have taken the subject up with dh before and we have had arguments about this in the past but it is as if today was the straw that broke the camel's back IYKWIM. I try to rise above things but this has been going on for sooooo long.
Today was FIL's birthday and I made a huge effort as always with nice presents and things. MIL was talking about how long DH and I had been together and said to DH "and you've stuck it for 11 years with all of that to put up with" nodding in my direction. DH said nothing. then she said to him "why aren't you saying anything? Are you worried you are going to incriminate yourself?" and he replied "no, I've got nothing to say"..................least he could of said is "well actually I have been very happy" but he said nothing.
The problem that I have is that this aside, we are very happily married, so why let his mum stick in the knife?. We hardly ever have arguments like this and when we do it's usually his mum that is the cause. In every other way he is the perfect dh and dad.
When we dropped dd off at music lesson I let rip. He doesn't understand why I am bothered. He says he can ignore it so why can't I. I threw my wedding rings at him and told him that I wanted to be married to a man, not a little boy who can't defend his wife from his mother's verbal abuse! AIBU
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Threatened dh with divorce today because of MIL!!!!!!!
DWvsMIL · 26/04/2008 16:01
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