I like a glass of wine or three, don't get me wrong, but my parents are serious social drinkers. For them this means 2 large home measure G&T's at 6pm and 3/4 to a bottle of wine each (and this is on a night at home), when people come round then sky is the limit.
I am worried about their health but this is a seperate issue. My concerns lie in the fact that they want ti be "active grandparents" and look after Ds. Last week I asked them to sit for me for the first time (first time I have ever left him). My brother has a DD and has had several rather dodgy experiences with my parents (e.g going next door and leaving the baby, coming home from a nights out and regularly finding my parents trashed on a regular basis etc etc.). It is not that they drink, it is that when they drink they become much less with it on the childcare front and in fact, do rather mad things. In my experience, i came home to find 2 empty bottles of wine in the bin and the baby moniter in the living room (they were in bed on a seperate floor). When I went into my son's room, he was on top of the bed with no blankets and a bib over his face.
Next day Mum and Dad said that they "had never needed moniters in their day" and that the reason for the sheets etc, was "as Dad had put him to bed". I know from seeing them after a few sherberts, that they just lose common sense. They are quite right no harm was done, but just for once I thought they could lay off it and focus on my son. The issues that occurred were minor but I naturally assume that some of their decisions were influenced by the bevvy.Mum knows I am cheesed off but more about what occurred (moniter/sheets) than booze.
How do you raise this stuff when you also love opening a bottle or two yourself no and again and also to share it with them, without seeming like a neurotic first time parent (which is what my parents think I am)..
Any thoughts out there
Xmas is coming and I am dreading it
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Chepstow1 · 14/12/2004 19:09
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