What/who is this? Found on DP's phone (photo)

(96 Posts)
Purpledasher Sun 24-Oct-21 10:31:58

Ok so I found this in DP's sent emails , asked him & he has 'no idea' & rushed off & deleted it. He is now angry with me!
Is it spam or what? I'm very suspicious & cross....

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Ohmych Sun 24-Oct-21 10:33:40

Is that a message he has sent someone?

LadyLuLou Sun 24-Oct-21 10:33:59

why are you checking his emails?

Crystalvas Sun 24-Oct-21 10:34:42

His reaction sounds suspicious. Time to start doing some detective work.

VioletVesper Sun 24-Oct-21 10:34:57

Who was it sent to? My first thought would be he wanted to save those pics but not in his phones photo album.

TwinklyBranch Sun 24-Oct-21 10:35:18

It's not spam if he's sent it!

MrMrsJones Sun 24-Oct-21 10:35:28

If its in his sent emails, he sent it

Rushing off to delete is suspicious as hell.


NautaOcts Sun 24-Oct-21 10:36:40

That’s weird
He’s emailed screen shots to someone
Does the email address give any clues about who it is or their sex? Do you know them?
Do you recognise the woman in the photo?

Purpledasher Sun 24-Oct-21 10:37:20

Yes he's sent it to someone...
LadyLuLou I came across it when looking at sent emails because we share another email account for business but I accidentally went into Yahoo instead of Gmail.

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PenguinBarnotBird Sun 24-Oct-21 10:38:00

Where’s he sending it to?

NautaOcts Sun 24-Oct-21 10:38:32

Or yes could it be he’s emailed them to himself and has another email address

Purpledasher Sun 24-Oct-21 10:39:10

No I don't recognise her at all.
No clue in email address..I've emailed it to ask who they are but don't have much hope of a response.

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Limeeye Sun 24-Oct-21 10:40:05

The reaction is what would worry me.

Sonex Sun 24-Oct-21 10:41:33

Clearly a porn thing. He's shred them with some one else or himself to wank over later. I suppose the fact that they're screenshots and not actual photos is positive - suggests he wasn't actually at the pool himself.

ImJustMum Sun 24-Oct-21 10:43:02

I cant see the photos clear enough. Are they photos from online or ones that have been taken by DH?

Pandaly Sun 24-Oct-21 10:45:46

I expect a Porn thing.

Seems silly to deny all knowledge when they are in his sent emails..

MilkyButts Sun 24-Oct-21 10:49:47

I'd assume it's a woman from social media either that he knows maybe from work or just a random woman from Instagram for example, if it was a porn thing surely the woman would be naked at some point so he'd screenshot that instead?

Pandaly Sun 24-Oct-21 10:50:41

True. Just something he's sent a mate for the wank bank.

NumberZ Sun 24-Oct-21 10:56:21

Hardly pornographic are they? His reaction is more concerning than the images imo.

themadcatparade Sun 24-Oct-21 10:58:09

He’s lying to you OP and hiding something. He’s taken screenshots of girl as per the description and he has sent it to someone.

Screenshots could have been off someone’s profile, is he on dating profiles? Or a porn thing, has he been on online porn sites and screenshotted something?

If you have a shared google account you can check the location and web activity via google account data and privacy settings of around the time and date of the email and it might give you a clue to where it came from

milcal Sun 24-Oct-21 10:58:17

Sent it to himself? An email address that you don't know about?

I've seen this happen before.

hattiesmith Sun 24-Oct-21 10:59:10

My suspicion would be he's taken the photos and sent them on to the person in the photo.
Can you check to see where he was on that date?

NumberZ Sun 24-Oct-21 11:00:33

I hadn’t thought of someone using those on a dating site - that’s some confidence fair play!

RicherThanYew Sun 24-Oct-21 11:02:14

Yes op I wouldn't worry. It's just a picture of a woman being shared as wank fodder like a piece of meat. No problem there.

Pandaly Sun 24-Oct-21 11:03:27


Yes op I wouldn't worry. It's just a picture of a woman being shared as wank fodder like a piece of meat. No problem there.

Well it would be a problem for me but it might not be for OP

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