I need to leave an abusive relationship but I don't know how. He is not physically abusive, he has never hit me and so I don't think the council will help me, I have 2 children and only work part time and frankly if I leave him I may not even be able to work that much. We are not married, we privately rent and the rent is extortionate but still the cheapest in the area. I have no family who could help me and I have no friends at all. My life is a complete mess and I don't know what to do. My mental health is in the gutter and I've tried to break up with him so many times but every single time I end up staying and I feel like I am going insane. I am sure that he is abusive - although he says I am so maybe we are just as bad as each other and I just need to stay single forever - God knows I know how to pick them! I just want to get out and I don't know how when I can't get help. There's no police reports, no evidence, everyone loves him - he has loads of friends and helps everyone whereas I have no friends, I don't talk and am seen as lazy, paranoid and unfriendly.
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