thank you thank you alll!!!! update :D

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peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 21:17:02

Ladies, and gentlemen xx i want to thank you all so much for sharing your opinions on my last post i posted in February. I want to update you all and say that i have been accepted for a house and i should have my own place by mid november.
I know many of you were unsure if my original post was real, and i dont blame you. i deleted my account incase he found out i posted that. But i have created a new one just to let you know how truely greatful that i am to everyone that gave their views on my post. Every now and then i would go back and read through it all to remind myself that i am on the right path.
Thank you, i honestly feel so much better. I was offered a house in march but i turned it down out of the fear that i cant survive on my own. But this time i am ready.
Just thank you!! I will add a link to my previous post

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4169289-Advice-please-on-sex

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whatsyournamethisismine Thu 14-Oct-21 21:33:46

Well done @peanuts02. Hope you and your DC are really happy; you've done an amazing thing thanks

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 21:37:08

@whatsyournamethisismine Thank you! im not sure the kids are to confident about it as this is all they know and i think the change is scary to them

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GoodnightGrandma Thu 14-Oct-21 21:37:25

Well done.
Are you still living with him at the moment ?

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 21:44:31

@GoodnightGrandma Yes i am, and it actually helped me realise how much i dont love him. I know if i had moved out when i was offered the first house i would have very much doubted my choice. But still being here has made me know that i am making the right choice

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VioletVesper Thu 14-Oct-21 21:55:04

Well done Peanuts, I’m so happy for you and your boys. Sending you lots of love and happiness flowers

Name99 Thu 14-Oct-21 21:57:06

Are you safe at the moment still living with him?

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peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 21:59:59

@Name99 yes, he has tried to touch me a couple of times and was annoyed that i swatted his hands away. But i told him its my body and that they are unwanted advances. I sleep next to my kids and he works long shifts so i barely see him

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peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:00:30

@VioletVesper Thank you!

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AnyFucker Thu 14-Oct-21 22:01:51

No offence, but I shall save my congratulations for when you are actually safe living permanently apart from him

Keep going but you are not there yet

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:07:24

@AnyFucker i shall keep you posted!

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Name99 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:07:28

Is he aware that you are leaving?

Mulhollandmagoo Thu 14-Oct-21 22:09:01

Ah, good luck OP! What a brill post! I bet you're on countdown now flowers

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:09:40

@Name99 yes he has known for a while and has already been out meeting with other women for "walks"

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peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:10:17

@Mulhollandmagoo Thank you, i may have had a celbratory wine this evening :D

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AnyFucker Thu 14-Oct-21 22:10:26

I shall look forward to it 🙏

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:11:37

@anyfucker me too!

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Forgothowmuchlhatehomeschoolin Thu 14-Oct-21 22:15:56

Aw well done for finding the strength to leave him op...wishing you and your children a lifetime of happiness xx

peanuts02 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:17:06

@Forgothowmuchlhatehomeschoolin thank you xx

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ANameChangeAgain Thu 14-Oct-21 22:29:37

Congratulations. Only a month to go until you are out of there. Well done for being so strong. flowers

Sally872 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:32:23

Great news! Well done for getting this organised. Hope it all goes as smoothly as possible. flowers

DamnUserName21 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:41:27

You go, girl!!!! flowers wine

FabacrombieAndBitch Thu 14-Oct-21 22:44:40

Congratulations 👏🎉

Beautiful3 Thu 14-Oct-21 22:50:10

Well done flowers

Fluffycloudland77 Thu 14-Oct-21 23:11:50

Reading your first thread made me feel ill, he’s a monster doing that to you. No one who loved you would do that.

Dh had a colleague into all that sort of thing and I always wondered how many women actually wanted to be at their “parties”.

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