Just gone off it with my husband of 20 years. Im happy to just carry on living together without all that but he wants to for sure. Hes almost turning into a sex pest. Grabbing my arse/tits/hugging me/kissing me when he can. Weve tried talking and ive pointed out he doesnt do much around the house and im tired and stressed out. Maybe that would help. He is doing a tiny bit more but its like he does something and expects me to do something in return. We have a night away coming up that hes booked (without kids) and im dreading it tbh. I know he’s expecting sex. How do i handle this without hurting his feelings. I just dont want to do it….
He does shout at me and has a bad one when we go to bed if hes got it in his head were going to be doing it that night and i dont want to and say no im tired because i am. Its a bit embarrassing tbh but ive not led him on during the day to think that. I cant kiss or hug him as he instantly takes it that im up for something. Its just draining…help!
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Organise · 14/10/2021 16:59
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