I met a guy through a social hobby 2 weeks ago... really hit it off, great chemistry, laughing the whole evening etc..
- he text me immediately the next morning saying it was nice to meet me etc...
- we have text every day since then (90% initiated by him). We have had one phone call which was last Wednesday where we told eachother we "like" each other.... he said that he wanted to keep getting to know me, and didn't want to push anything... since then he has continued to text me every day but hasn't asked me to meet up! We have never hung out just the 2 of us.
- he is very flirty/playful and teases me a lot, so much so that it is confusing to me how he actually views me and if he likes me! I know boys would tease girls in school when they like them, but he is 32!
- we have seen eachother 5 times in a group setting for our hobby over the past few weeks, I feel like he isn't that interested to speak to me in a group setting...i can't tell if he is playing it cool, or just not bothered. But as soon as I leave, I will get home and see that he has text me saying it was nice to see me even though in person he just didn't seem that bothered about talking to me
- last Friday we almost kissed, he walked me to my car and he kinda went to kiss me, but I kind of pulled back because I don't want to kiss him when he hasn't asked me on a date... I really wanted to kiss him but I don't want to be used
- he never asks me any questions about myself, or questions in general! Although he messages me every day, they are just silly messages... I feel like he isn't interested in getting to know me on a deeper level. When I have tried to throw in conversation topics, he doesnt run with them. It makes me feel like I'm just there for him to flirt with
I know the simplest thing here is for me to just ask him out myself, but I feel resistant to that. So many people say that if a guy likes you, he will tell you and show you. I've chased guys before and it has never worked!! I'm not worried about him rejecting me, I'm worried that he will say yes, but I will feel like I like him more than he likes me and I don't want to get hurt or be used
What do you think?