This is very trivial, probably, but I'm feeling v weepy so seems a big deal: My mum and sister visited on Monday to see me and DS (4 months).
Unfortunately DS wasn't playing ball - he was teething, had a cold and was clingy and grumpy. Upsetting all round as they'd had to drive 70 miles.
Mum clearly knackered as had also spent weekend with my brother, an hour and a half away in central London.
At one point she turned to my sister (lives five mins away, creep ) and snapped "just don't YOU move further away, I need one child that I can pop to see without an hour and a half's journey and making Arrangements".
I feel terrible. I know how much she loves DS, her only grandchild, and how worried she is that he's not getting to know her properly (she'll be caring for him one day a week when I go back to work in five months). And it was my choice to move here, six years ago.
But OTOH, it's only 70 miles - her best mate's son has just moved back to Australia FFS. And I can't afford to live near her, could buy one-bed flat there for price of nice house here.
And I didn't know I was going to have a baby when I moved. Or that I would really want to see so much more of her.
Sigh. Any words of wisdom?
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Feeling guilty and cross at same time - thanks Mum!
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Moorhen · 29/11/2007 09:06
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