Person A brings home some cakes/biscuits/chocolate gifts from the end of term at work.
Person B (family member) says they need to think about which of them they will or won’t eat as they’ll waste their summer and put on ‘atleast a stone’ if they eat them all.
Person B is fairly obsessed with weight and tells person A very regularly that they’re damaging their health/need to exercise more and lose weight. Comments on what they eat and tells them they have ‘wasted the day’ if they’ve eaten badly.
They have been called out on such comments but tell person A it’s only because they love them so much and want them to be healthy.
It’s hard to tell if they are well meant or digs. Anyone experienced similar?
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Well meant comments or digs?
Orangedots · 23/07/2021 15:19
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