DP and I have been speaking about separating. He wants to stay together so I am the sole decision maker on this according to him. I'm very unsure which way to go. I have asked that we speak to someone such as a mediator or counsellor so a third party can help us through communication if we are to stay together. I said to him that I thought he only wants to remain together because it is convenient for him as I do so much. He said to me "don't think you're not replaceable, just like in a job you can be replaced. Short term it will be hard but long term there will be options available" or something similar. I told him I thought this was an unkind cruel thing to say. Would you think the same as me or is this just a factual statement that I shouldn't be hurt by? I genuinely don't know as I'm pretty sensitive about everything at the moment as I feel like the weight of the world is on me.
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