Ex jailed for DV yesterday

[ode2me]

I had a short relationship last year that quickly became very abusive in every way. I had suffered serious child abuse and hadn't yet learnt the warning signs.


The last incident was the worst. Toddler in the next room crying and my head being stomped on repeatedly.


7 months later yesterday he was found guilty of ABH with a weapon and assault by battery.
He was sentenced to 15 months in prison and i was granted a 10 year restraining order.


I just wanted to tell you that there is life after DV. I wish you all the very best.

[SandysMam]

Well done Op for getting away and for standing up to him. I wish you and your little one every happiness for the future!

[itsgettingwierd]

Well done for having the courage to report.

Glad he got punished.

All the best for you and your DC for the future

[Mumteedum]

Just so sorry for what you have been through and what strength that must have taken to get to this point.

Wish the animal had got a longer sentence but v glad about the restraining order.

How are you doing and your child?

[youvegottenminuteslynn]

Bloody you poor thing. Thank god you and little one are safe now

[stillsleeptraining]

Very pleased about the outcome but so sorry you went through this x

[Onthedunes]

Brave woman, I wish you all the luck in the world for your future happiness.

[Lougle]

Well done for being so brave and taking it to court. I'm sure the restraining order is more comfort than the sentence.

[AdaFuckingShelby]

So glad you got out safely and he is now facing the consequences of his actions

[RandomMess]

Well done for reporting and seeing it through

[Thoughtcontagion]

you’re amazing! Wishing you a very happy future x

[Landlubber2019]

Wishing you a very happy future op

[StepawayfromtheBiscuittin]

Well done OP. Wishing you and your child well.

[WorkHardPlayHard1]

Wow!!! Well done for protecting yourself and your child from this monster.
You deserve all the love and luck in the world for your strength and courage XXX 💪😘🙌

[ode2me]

Thank you all so much.
We are doing okay. Myself less and my three year old more.
She never mentions him now. She was just shy of three when it happened. Closer to four now but hadn't mentioned him in months. I know she remembers. I feel awful for that.

When the 999 call was played in court my toddler could clearly be heard saying "I'm scared." Unforgivable.

Thank you again so much

[BreakfastClub80]

Bless you OP, it wasn’t your fault

[getyourfreakon]

So glad this had a good outcome for you

[Yellowswan]

OMG, your last post is heartbreaking. Your poor girl.
But just know that you saved her. What a fantastic and brave mum you are 💐

[Namechangedforthistoday]

What a pathetic sentence for such a horrific crime.

[thebestnamehere]

Been through this myself, well done you x you escaped x please let yourself heal and live for your child, she needs you. Men are just a waste of space, you're better off alone xx. I wish you all the best xx

[HollowTalk]

15 months for stamping on a woman's head while his toddler is crying in the next room?

What the hell is going on in sentencing? I would love a Q&A with a judge over that.

[Queenie6655]

Wow wow wow

So sad to hear this happened but so proud of how many brave women take this to court

I'm up in court in a matter of weeks
Similar circumstances

I'm so scared
Thank you for sharing your experience

[CombatBarbie]

The bit about court playing the 999 call sent shivers down my spine. I am so glad you and DD got out and are safe. Out of interest, who made the 999 call?

[ode2me]

@CombatBarbie

The bit about court playing the 999 call sent shivers down my spine. I am so glad you and DD got out and are safe. Out of interest, who made the 999 call?

There were two assaults that day. After the first I had managed to get him out of the flat and immediately rung 999 for help. He was trying to break the front door in.

During the call I noticed a rustle behind me and had then realised he had climbed a window into the flat to continue the assault. I was pulled over a child's safety gate by the hair and onto the floor. That's when the stomping happened.

Somehow the call stayed active when knocked from my hands.

I feel lucky. And sad. So sad.

[wtfisgoingonhere21]

Op your post just made my blood run cold

What a a strong person you are to have gone through that and come out the other side with a conviction and restraining order.

We read so many situations that are like yours and it's not until it's sadly too late that it all comes to light

Take time to heal yourself emotionally op

I don't want to say well done or congratulations as it sounds so wrong but remind yourself every day how far you've come and how it could have ended had you not got the help when you did

[Happycat1212]

I don’t think he is the father of the toddler HollowTalk. At least you won’t have to ever deal with him again then op, what an awful man, so scary! It’s stuff like this that puts me off dating again.