New to this forum conversations but honestly in need of some advice. I’ve split with my partner of 5 years. He has a child to someone else and so do I. Getting with him wasn’t the easier as it started as an affair. (Yes I know, not the best)
Recently since being pregnant he didn’t show any signs of caring at all. Wouldn’t ask how I was, or if baby was moving. Nothing at all.
He gave up his house to his ex wife to be and moved in with me. After 6 days of living with me I BLEW. Locked him out and he hasn’t been back since.
We have had a rocky past, he speaks to my son like shit. Doesn’t know how to treat him. Attempted to give him into trouble when it most certainly wasn’t needed. This man wanted my full attention 24/7.
But now I’m carrying his child, and all of a sudden he is interested. Demands photos of me, blames me for stealing his right to watch the journey of our baby grow, claims due to me deleting him on social media I am hiding something. The list is endless. He is constantly creating an argument and needs to know what I’m doing or who I am with ( which I won’t tell him ) as he doesn’t have a right.
So my main issue is, birth! What do I do? Because I honestly don’t want to be around the man. But I feel I couldn’t take the birth of our baby away from him. It’s a stress thinking that I’ll have to see him, and be around him.
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Split with partner but 27 weeks pregnant! What to do?
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