I had a quick peek at OH phone the other day and found fabguys on there.
I asked him about it and he completely denied it. Saying I'm paranoid.
But I know it was him as his username came up in the memory and I recognize pictures. It mentions being descrete and can't accommodate, which in other words means don't want wife to know.
I used to trust him completely until about 2 years ago I found very explicit messages to a woman from work. Can't trust anyone anymore.
We have been together 23 years, but not married. We have 3 kids 12 to 4. I haven't got a job, been looking after the kids for 12 years, who is going to hire me. Also have a few health problems. Not sure I'd cope on my own. My last shred on trust in humans is gone.
He has never mentioned being gay and we have talked about it before. I've even asked him directly if he liked men.
Never wanted to put my kids though a separation as my parents very messy divorce destroyed me. However, I could never trust him now. Every time he went out or on his phone is be wondering.
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Mummymushroom · 06/04/2021 17:05
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