I don't know if I'm overreacting or am I right to feel a bit weird about this?
My gf asked me to read out something on her phone to her and as I did, a message came through from instagram from a guy replying to a story she had posted. This guy is someone I know about and who she has openly told me she talked to before we got together. She went almost embarrassed when it happened but I kept quiet and didn't make a big deal out of it. I know this guy has reacted or responded to her stories before because she has told me. However, it made me feel really quite uneasy yesterday.
After what happened she has really stepped up her loving side, hugging me, kissing me, telling me how much she loves me etc. Said I'm her soul mate etc.
A few hours later I told her that the message unsettled me, like it would if I had one from a girl. I guess what is going through my mind is if she has been messaging him back and forth and I don't know about it. But I have zero evidence of that.
She told me she knew I had something on my mind and she promised me that (quite sincerely) that she would never do anything to break what he had. I told her that I trust her and that's all I can do.
Am I right to be worrying about this? I guess I can't be sure 100% but I have to trust her until proven otherwise?
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Gf recieveing message from other guys.
Notquitethere01 · 08/03/2021 09:14
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