This morning I was a very happily married mum of 2 small DC. Now I feel like my life has been ruined but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not.
I logged on my ds laptop this morning for home school and realised it was in incognito mode. Then I realised the internet had been left open. It was porn site where my "dh" has apparently been messaging other women for 8 years. He has sent loads of explicit pictures and has also received lots too. Some women he has been speaking to for months.
I have confronted him this evening- he denies he has ever met anyone irl but he did agree to give me the login details so I can see for myself.
Upon further delving, I found a secret email address which I have guessed the password for. He has been emailing prostitutes for prices are what services they provide. I'm absolutely broken. This has been going on since 2008.
He obviously denies ever meeting them, he was just curious. I know this is a lie.
I'm just hurting so much. He was my best friend. We have been together since childhood. I feel like our whole life is a lie.
I'm not sure where to go from here. I have 2 small dc and I'm left with the option of separation and being alone and a single mum, or continuing to live with a liar.
The worst part is I actually really miss him. I realise how pathetic this is.
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I've just found his secret email account
Chopbob · 01/03/2021 23:27
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