Partner found out I messaged other guys on OLD when we broke up for 5 months

... And he took the piss out of me mercilessly- pointed out I'd have been annoyed if the roles were reversed. I did the "we were on a breaaaak" from friends thing and he laughed.

And that was it.

If this had been my previous relationship he would have been absolutely vile to me. Sulks, silent treatment and outbursts of every name under the sun.

My DPs reaction was a revelation. And I know that even if he did mind, he'd just... say so. Calmly.

All of you on here with horrible abusive partners- you deserve better and better is out there. I wish you all the strength to find the happiness and peace you deserve