So some back story I’m almost 40 single mum with 1 DC, met someone last July (40s 1 DC)so it’s coming up 7 months. It was all very mad and heady in the beginning and he did mention marriage and kids but I was very aware that was the honeymoon stage so paid it no mind... he did ask to be in a relationship with me and we see each other 3/4 times a week so on that score all fine. He has met my DC and on V day I met his DC.
Last weekend he was talking to me about a vague plan he has about buying a property back home, then said ‘he and who he is with’ can holiday there and I asked him if he wanted to move there and he said oh not now-maybe 10/15 years or something, which got me thinking maybe he doesn’t see a future for us or am I being paranoid?
I do want to talk to him about the future now, as I am coming up to 40, do want another DC etc etc, or is 7 months into this too soon?
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Caffeineprincess · 23/02/2021 18:46
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