Hi,
Id just like some opinions as to whether a weeks holiday with friends is too long whilst in a relationship?
After last nights road map, my DP informs me that he intends to go away for a week with friends (male and female).
It doesn't quite sit right with me, I'm all for going away for the weekend with the girls, and am fine with him going away for 2/3 nights with the lads a couple of times a year for city breaks etc, but a week seems a little too long, It's not something I would consider, especially without inviting him.
Also not too keen on him being away with other women whist he has a girlfriend at home... doing things that couples should do...
All the friends are single, so it seems like a single persons holiday... (hence I wouldn't be going or get invited)
We only get a certain holiday allowance from work / have to budget for holidays as we both own our own homes (don't live together) so for me, a weeks holiday would be used to be spent with him.
He says he intends to do this once a year, along with another shorter break in the year with them too.
I know it's his holiday & he can do as he pleases with it but it's just my opinion and I think those kind of things should be enjoyed with partners.
We been together just over a year, so most of this has been spent during lockdown, so we haven't been able to go away ourselves other than the odd night between lockdowns.
For background, I'm 36, previous relationship of 11 years, he's 29 and not had a serious relationship since his late teens / early 20s.
I don't want to come across as controlling by saying I'm not comfortable with it, but I'm not...
So just wondering if this is the norm and I AIBU to not like this?
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Blacklillies · 23/02/2021 17:29
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